Farrah Fawcett an angel amongst the angels

A big piece of my childhood has just passed away. Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson have left this World… early. (She from a long battle against cancer and he from undetermined causes that lead to cardiac arrest.) It is a strange feeling that I am experiencing with this news. I did not know either person personally. I have simply enjoyed their personas from the audience like so many others. But their impact on my life is unmistakeable. I speak today of Farrah Fawcett.

When Farrah became the number one female television star I was early in my elementary school experience; the only ethnic child in an all white Catholic school. I was a young, multi-racial girl with full head of mixed chic hair, and a loving white mother who really had no frame of reference for how to deal with it. Just like every other girl, I wanted so badly to look like Farrah; to have the trademark Farrah Fawcett hair cut, feathered and bouncing in the wind.

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Miss Lori uses Spanish in her teaching.

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Our friend Michelle Obama; Miss Lori’s personal reflection

Tonight I am finally getting around to watching the NBC News Special I tivoed a few weeks ago, Inside the Obama White House. It?s really interesting. Such an intimate glimpse into the fast paced high energy world of our executive government. It’s really quite amazing when you begin to understand the sacrifices of the individuals who are contributing to the betterment of this Presidency. Watching I feel closer to the action, in touch with the heartbeat of our central force known simply as Obama. I felt so compelled to watch this special given the historical nature of this presidency, but also for a more personal reason, because I have a known this first family in part for the last 8 years. Surreal. And so I reflect upon the beginning.

My relationship with the Obama family dates back to an exercise class at a local dance studio. It was a perfect class for me since I could take it with my youngest child at the time in her car seat at my feet, while my older child took a creative movement class in the next room. Apparently I wasn?t the only mother who appreciated the simultaneous opportunity. Next to me most weeks was a tall, attractive woman known only to me as Michelle. As is the case with many interactions we busy mother?s have, I knew only her first name. Our talk was centered around our children, and our meetings were relegated to those brief encounters sandwiched between child events and commitments. This went on, off and on, for a few years, during which time I gave birth to another child, started teaching some dance classes at the studio myself, and conceived the outline for my own CAMPUS Classes.

Fast forward to April 2004. It is time for the primary election for our Senate race in my fair city of Chicago. Truthfully I have been preoccupied with my day to day life and so I shamefully have not been paying attention to the races in general, and the candidates specifically. Although, I had seen posters all around for candidate Obama. I new he was young and a democrat, and that many of the people I knew and respected were voting for him. So, earlier that day I hurriedly cast my ballot for him as well. When the results came in later that evening I was in front of the TV watching Obama?s acceptance speech. When the television shot widened so did my eyes. There, standing on the stage with this candidate who is so new to me, is another person who is not. My Michelle is standing on the stage with little Sasha and Malia at her side. I ask out loud, unbelieving, ?What is Michelle doing there??. It took a moment for my brain to catch up to the images on the screen. I could certainly see what she was doing there, she was supporting her husband; her husband the Democratic nominee for Illinois Senator in 2004. Well I?ll be. Go figure.

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Miss Lori’s tips for staying healthy.

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A Quiet Non-Graduation

Yesterday a milestone was very quietly reached. My youngest daughter finished Kindergarten. When my elder children reached this milestone there was much pomp and circumstance. There were a ceremonies, complete with songs, poetry, certificates, and cake. Parents were crowded into to hot and stuffy gyms all vying for the best picture of their well dressed 6 year old as they crossed over into the World of bonafide elementary school. But not yesterday. Yesterday my youngest child wasn?t wearing her Sunday finest, but instead her sister?s hand me down pants that were about an inch and a half too long, one pink and one green sneaker,( thankfully from the same shoe style and make), a striped shirt, and a hap-hazard ponytail, (filled with a mass of tangled curls desperately in need of shampoo). Instead of a ceremony she and her classmates decorated yellow baseball caps to look like duck faces, complete with an orange felt bill and googly eyes. Instead of a stuffy gym there was an open air playground. And instead of cake there was popsicles! All of us parents were tightly gathered at the outside door of the school, just like any other day, awaiting the dismissal of our kids. And just like any other day my daughter and her classmates came rushing out the school door in a blur of energetic shrills. (But today they were all wearing their duck hats.) The children poured out onto the playground to meet us and most importantly to have their popsicles. The teachers sat on the playground benches posing for random pictures with their charges as parents milled around, not quite sure what to do. I brought giant sunflowers for my daughter which I was then relegated to carry as I followed her around the equipment like a sherpa. As she played she gradually shed various pieces of her clothing and props, such as her raincoat, her new duck necklace, her popsicle trash and the like, all of which I was relegated to watch over like the good ?Sherpa Mommy? that I am. While balancing all of this accoutrement I was able to catch a couple of candid shots of her and her sticky classmates in a feeble attempt to cement the occasion in my mind for future reflection.

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Karyn Pettigrew; blind spots, business and intuition Part 1

The other day I received one of many event notices from Constant Contact. My mailbox is always filled with them. This one stuck out, entitled Blind Spots, Business and Breakfast. It was from Karyn Pettigrew a name that scratched at the back of my addled brain. So I opened it, and thus opened a new chapter for my blog.

I decided right then and there to start profiling people for my blogs. No particular category, rhyme or reason… But it’s something I feel compelled to do, or rather I should say I felt compelled to do after reading Karyn’s invitation. Call it intuition, I knew there was something special to be found in this event. SO I reached out to Karyn and asked her if she would share some time with me so that I could create this inaugural profile post. And guess what…she agreed. This is Part 1 of my two part profile on this amazing woman.

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Karyn Pettigrew; blind spots, business and intuition Part 2

Karyn Pettigrew is an intuitive business and professional consultant, author, motivational speaker, and teacher. Through her company KP Consulting she is hosting her first “Blind Spot Breakfast” on June 18th, at 7:30am, at Ina’s restaurant on Randolph. I talked to her about the Breakfast and a whole host of other things in Part 1 of my profile of her yesterday. My original questions all answered, Karyn and I kept talking on and on about what she sees as the most important lessons we can internalize as business people, her visit to the White House, and what she hopes to teach her own children. I capture those thoughts here in Part 2 of my profile.

ML~Your event is about Blind Spots and helping people overcome them. Have you ever had a blind spot? How do we do overcome them?

Karyn~I have had not one, but a couple. One of the biggest ones was around this idea of how I needed to fit in… not fitting, being the odd man out. What I thought was really a projection of my own insecurity on some level, that created a level of anxiety about what I thought I needed to do to be seen as an equal. And it colored the choices that I made, this feeling that I had to be “better than.” Some of that is cultural. Some of it is a result of being a woman. Now, having authenticity changes things. My intention is to do good, and that needs to be in alignment with what I need for me and my family.

I don?t think we examine truth enough. I think we have to, continually. If I look within, and if what is true-if what comes back to me is, ?I am feeling overwhelmed? or ?I don?t like that?, then I need to adjust. One of the greatest challenges in this is the fear of looking at “it.” Generally our fears sit just behind us, as if in a football stadium, shoulder to shoulder sitting in the stands. You just know there?s something really big and scary behind you, but you don’t want to look. But if I push clients to really articulate it, articulate that fear, they shine light into a dark space. When you take (the fear) out and really look at it and label it, the mind can take action. You have to be courageous and really look at it. The truth is, you already know that it’s there. There is a discomfort and a dis-ease present. (Ultimately), it?s a battle between the mind and the heart. Let’s say you are unhappy at your job but stay there you are still “sitting in the stands”. If you say “I am really afraid to leave my job I won?t have money”-you label it (and then) you can go into action mode. There is a lot you can do once you label it. You can set aside salary, you can give yourself a time-line, you can say here is my deal breaker. There are lots of things you can do, but if you don?t look at it, the intellect will turn on itself.

ML~What do you think is the most important lesson that new business entrepreneurs need to remember?

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Fast Chat: Miss Lori

Heidi Stevens is a Chicago-based writer and editor. You’ll find her writing every week in the Chicago Tribune, where she writes about parenting, style, relationships and other matters of the heart. Heidi also teaches creative writing classes at Columbia College. She and her husband, Tom, and their daughter, June, live in Chicago. www.heidikstevens.com

You may know her as the smiling face who appears between your kids’ favorite PBS shows, doling out tips on healthy living. But Miss Lori (Lori Holton Nash) is a one-woman force of nature, urging kids — through her DVDs, CDs, YouTube channel and free live performances — to practice “active play, healthy food, peaceful sleep, awesome fun!”

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Fast Chat: Miss Lori

You may know her as the smiling face who appears between your kids’ favorite PBS shows, doling out tips on healthy living. But Miss Lori (Lori Holton Nash) is a one-woman force of nature, urging kids — through her DVDs, CDs, YouTube channel and free live performances — to practice “active play, healthy food, peaceful sleep, awesome fun!”

QAs a parent, it’s tempting to say, “I’ll focus on healthy eating, and the rest will have to slide.” Is that OK?

AI’m a mother of three, and there are days I look at that list and say, “I’m not sure I can hit all of it.” It’s about keeping the overall mantra in our heads so we’re laying the foundation for our children to make healthy choices. We want good, healthy choices to become autopilot.

QWe’re seeing record childhood obesity but also an increase in eating disorders — children starving themselves. Are both epidemics rooted in the same problem?

ANot exactly. Eating disorders speak to the imprinting on our children where they don’t feel good enough. They look at their changing, developing bodies and say, “That’s not what I see in every magazine, every advertisement, every television show. I don’t see me, so I must not be OK.” Kids do unhealthy things to adjust to those images because they’re young and they don’t have the knowledge to make good choices. Obesity has to do with money — money we don’t have to fund positive school lunch programs, for teachers to staff proper recess, to have physical fitness in schools every day. And the money that is coming in is from vending machine retailers who place unhealthy products in schools. Children are still learning what it means to do right by our bodies and make better choices.


QAt your shows, you don’t let parents off the hook. Is your mission to educate adults as well?

AIf my mission is children, I need to pay attention to their parents. It’s good for children to see their parents get up and get moving. It’s also about giving back to parents. We spend so much time being the enforcer, the guidance counselor, the tutor, the referee. I feel like I’ve done a good show if I see parents participating with their children — not off having a kaffeeklatsch — but taking that gift of being able to just hang with their children and enjoy them.

hstevens@tribune.comRead more about Miss Lori’s upcoming performances at missloriscampus.com.
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